Meghan + James @ Inn at Longshore wedding

Westport CT shoreline wedding – Amy Champagne Events

Well the 2013 wedding season started off with a bang with Megan and James’ beautiful event at the Inn At Longshore in Westport. It was one of those spectacular comfortable Spring Connecticut days you really hope for on a wedding day. The day started out with preparations and a First Look at the gorgeous Delamar Hotel in Southport, CT.… while the fellas got ready at the Norwalk Inn.

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Meghan’s super-cool dress came from The Plumed Serpent Bridal in Westport

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Meghan reads her card from James before reopening his gift to her.

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Meanwhile - the boys are nearly ready

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Larissa Lake hard at work on Meghan’s makeup!

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a quick toast before the dress goes on!

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FINALLY–that damn zipper cooperated!!!

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One of my favorites from the day, taken right in the hotel room no less!

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just beautiful:  flowers by Fleurescent, Milford CT

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The Delamar has a LOT of cool spots to photograph!!

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So after some pix at the hotel, we hopped to downtown Southport. While we’re standing there, this AMAZING blue Edsel drives slowly by. I started yelling-”OH my god!! Stop him!!!” Now if you know me at all, you can only imagine that I started jumping up and down like a little kid. The car could not have been more perfect, and Mark from the CT Seaport Car Club could not have been nicer to let us ‘take over’ his automobile for 15-20 minutes!

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somebody pinch me….

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the ceremony was at the First Congregational in Norwalk. Fun Robert Norman Factoid: I photographed my FIRST wedding there 22 years ago, and this is the first time i’d ever been back!

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on to The Inn at Longshore!!!

Amy from Amy Champagne Events did a GREAT job of making the day and details beautiful (and she was a delight to work with, I might add….)

–check out the seating cards which were luggage tags with different countries, along with postcards to write the couple a greeting

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I really LOVE this candid–just existing room light!

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groovy tunes from Oasis Music, NJ

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and finally- dessert was cup-cake-o-rama , from Taste & See!!!

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also thanks to Jay Fleming and Ian Witschy for lending a helping hand this day!!!

Alexandra + Brian’s Jersey City engagement session

So for starters – i’ve never been to Jersey City. So the entire ride down i’m thinking, “WAIT: I have to go through one of those TUNNELS??!!” While I should not have been surprised, the time it took to get through was almost as long as the drive down (ahhh! NYC!!) but once I emerged in the NJ side, I was pleasantly surprised by the whole vibe of the area. We met up at the Hyatt – finding it was much chillier and WINDY than we all expected. Alexandra and Brian were nice enough to get me a soda and snacks to curb my impending ‘should have eaten more before I left grouchiness’ (I’m like a 9 year old, I suppose)

Anyhow - my blood sugar aside – I could not wait to get some shots from THIS vantage point of NYC!!

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they had only recently added the tower portion to the ‘new’ World Trade center

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right before we shot this, a heard of PATH train riders zipped by!

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While I know this probably isn’t the best idea- these guys braved the danger of the local trains to get some fun track images!

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–you know, it’s funny: EVERYBODY is usually a nervous wreck during engagement shots. That’s no joke. Everyone think that have to do ‘something’ or believe they are doing something wrong–whatever it is. The first 15 minutes (as you’ve heard me say if you’ve had a session with me) is usually not so great.

Buit there is a point when things usually change – I can see if and feel it (at the risk of sounding all Zen) It’s like suddenly a wall is broken and the mood shifts. The couple becomes more comfortable, realizing its not the painful process they anticipated. For Alexandra and Brian – it was right about HERE when things shifted for me. I wonder if they feel the same!!

 

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we took over the steps of the postal service for a little while—

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–this was so funny. We were walking back to my car while still shooting a little, and this small-fry with his safety helmet and bike zipped down the street and was NOT about to veer off his path. So Brian and Lexi made an arch and he casually just passed underneath!!!

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And finally – I spotted some art deco i could pas sup to finish the afternoon off!!!

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thanks for enduring my tardiness and i’ll see you both VERY soon at The Stamford Yacht Club!!

Robin Dini - May 14, 2013 - 7:51 pm

I totally see the shift in comfort where you pointed it out. Isn’t that funny? It’s so true :)

Allison + Rob’s NYC engagement session

I met Allison and Rob just a short time ago as they are planning their wedding rather quickly (it’s a month away!) So we both had time last weekend and quickly scheduled our engagement session in Central Park. We met at the Plaza Hotel side of the park and started our trek in, one an absolutely gorgeous day!!

 

 

the forsythia were in full-on bloom and looked amazing, providing a perfect golden backdrop!

always a good time to get a couple of nice, straightforward portraits!

 

the Wisteria Pergola up behind the bandshell is one of my favorite spots for photos. You’ll find people there, but its never as crowed as the ‘typical’ parts of the park.

 

I could hardly believe that we got an almost people-free view of this area!!

 

I’m a sucker for large, open ‘graphic’ walls to shoot against and I had never before noticed this one there!

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…and now THIS is an angle of the stairs leading to the fountain that I ALSO never noticed before, and was amazed at how completely different it looked from this side. It could be my new favorite spot!

 

…I must have said something REALLY silly to get this kind of laugh going!!!

 

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We were discussing other locations, and Allison told me about her apartment rooftop view. Once she said ‘direct view of the Chrysler Building” I was in the taxi before she finished her sentence!!

There’s a view of the Empire State building from the opposite direction as well (previously unblocked before that building went up in front of it!)

 

I’m standing on a wobbly chair for this angle, but its not quite as precarious as it seems!

 

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and there you go – BAM! How can you go wrong??!!

Thanks again for a fun afternoon as well as the wine and cheese at Artisnal - and we’re looking forward to May 11th at Highlands Country Club

Robin Dini - May 14, 2013 - 7:53 pm

Love how you can change things up on a location that you have probably photographed in a hundred times before. Just by tweaking your angle and the backgrounds. That’s why you’re amazing buddy. :)

Neil van Niekerk - April 29, 2013 - 10:41 pm

Robert … this is an excellent series of photos, showing a lot of imagination on settings and composition. Nice! And congratulations to the couple.

Alexis + Eric’s NYC engagement session

A few weeks back I met up with Alexis and Eric down by South Street Seaport for the start of their E-Session. Turns out that the seaport is still a but if a mess as the result of Hurricane Sandy, but we still managed to find a bunch of really cool spots. It was also quite empty, which worked to our advantage!

 

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I have always thought that this angle of the Brooklyn Bridge is nicer than physically being up on the bridge

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Leave to to me to find a sequence of rusty pipes to shoot against!!!

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because of all the shops still being closed, we had this cobblestone street all to ourselves!!!

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there are so many cool little nooks and crannies down in that area!

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we all agreed that Mr Frosty is a bit creepy–but I had to use the truck in a shot. The ice cream guy was pretty amused!!!

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we all hopped in a cab for part 2 of our day, uptown in Cebntral park

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there was a guy playing an instrument right behind me as i took this – so we had a free serenade!

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I always just adore the tile work in this part of the park!

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thanks for a fun day!! Looking forward to your Sept wedding at Jonathan Edwards!

So, you want to be a Wedding Photographer?

My friend Krista Guenin posted this very insightful blog article today which I felt was a good follow up to my last post about “wedding weekend warriors” In fact, MY post was inspired by a facebook posting SHE had made ( it’s a long story.) The general gist being that, while we all started somewhere, there is a level of responsibility one should have before tackling someones wedding. Too many people see $$$ and think – “HEY!! I can do THAT! How hard could it be?” Diving in cold just because you have a ‘good camera’ does not mean you can necessarialy deliver the goods a bride and groom deserve and expect, regardless of how much or little they may be paying. Having a ‘good’ camera certainly makes things easier, but does not make you capable of handling a large event overnight. Digital cameras are pretty magical tools these days, but 4/5 of the magic comes from YOU.   (I might add, one of the most irritating thing people say at weddings are one of 2 things: (1) “Wow, you must get good pictures with that camera!” (2) “SO, you get any good pictures today?” This usually happens in the mens room as a guest passes you on the way to the urinal, which is always a charming locale for a photography discussion.)

A few years back, I recall having a person interested in weddings tag along with me for part of a season, only to watch their eyes glaze over once the reality of what’s involved on a wedding day took root.

They no longer photograph weddings.

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Miss Krista was also gutsy enough to share one of her BAD photos from the past:

Trust me: had I bothered to look it would not have been hard to find my OWN version of this image! I have plenty from years back.

a brief quote from her posting:

“Look, I started in weddings with NO experience and a totally crappy camera! But, this job is more important and more difficult than most people realize, in part because every hobbiest with a dslr puts up a facebook page and claims to be a photographer. It’s actually a lot more complicated than that. It’s an investment. It’s a risk. It’s a ton of work and a relatively big responsibility [I know we're not curing cancer, or holding anyone's lives in our hands - just their memories].  And it’s not for everyone who likes to take photos. Some people should just let it remain a hobby and enjoy it for the fun of it instead of trying to make a career out of it!  The wedding photography industry needs more people to know that before they come into our field. New people have a real tendency to jump into it and end up doing a lot of damage to their clients, their friends, themselves, and our entire industry. I absolutely hate seeing that happen!  I worked for 4 years for someone else, learning how to shoot weddings and run a business, and I am STILL constantly learning how to do it better. My suggestions are by no means the only way to do things, but these are the things I’ve learned through my own experiences.  I’m a big fan of learning from other people’s mistakes and experiences as much as possible!”

Anyway, I could go on and on as you know, but please just read her post for a much more insightful story can I can deliver!

LINK HERE

Krista - April 9, 2013 - 10:34 am

Thanks Robert! You definitely picked the worst photo of the bunch to share, haha! Thank God the client wasn’t counting on me that day!!! :)

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